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Denville Haunted History Tour reveals more than expected

Denville’s Haunted History Tour featured creepy tales from the town’s past. According to an introduction at the Denville Museum, all of these stories were based on official documents and police reports.

The stops on the tour seemed to have little to do with the stories themselves as much as they contributed to the ambiance. One of the first stories, about a man being buried alive beneath a Burger King, was told next to St. Francis, a senior living residence.

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St. Fancis was the first stop on the tour.

Wendy McDonald, one of the tour participants, said that she liked some of the older history, like the idea that St. Francis was built in place in an old mansion and parts of that building are still visible.

McDonald’s husband, Danny, said that he liked learning more about the town in general. “I love Denville,” he said, “I like the history of it. It’s interesting.”

Stories ranged from historical factoids to unexplained disappearances. However, a tour that was meant to be creepy turned out to be a heartwarming display of community.

About 15 minutes and to live tweeting this tour, I hit a bump in the sidewalk and was sent flying from my wheelchair into Diamond Spring Road. One of the tour assistants and my high school history teacher, Peter Zablocki, had been helping my mom and I navigate through the various terrains, from grass to concrete.

When I fell, he and the McDonalds ran over to help. In a remarkable stroke of luck, Danny McDonald is a volunteer firefighter and EMT. His wife is a special education teacher. Danny quickly checked me for injuries and, with the help of the others, lifted me back into my wheelchair.

The McDonalds said they would help me catch up to the tour.

In the next moment, Sgt. Dennis Subrizi, who was my high school’s student resource officer, pulled up beside us, saying he got a call about the incident. When he recognized me, he smiled and said that he would give us a police escort until we reached the group again. This allowed us to walk in the road, where the terrain was easier to roll over.

The McDonald’s broke into a full sprint, Wendy scanning the ground with her flashlight for cracks while Danny pushed the wheelchair and my mom ran beside us.

We eventually caught up for the tour in time to hear about a suit of armor on display at the museum. I was so busy profusely thanking the couple that I barely heard the story. Wendy said that, when she and Danny first saw us walking, Danny immediately expressed a desire to help so they hung back in case they were needed.

That innate desire to help shocked me and moves me to tears even as I write this. The tour was about Denville’s history but, to me, it’s people like the ones I encountered at this event that define the community of Denville.

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Stacey Bender to visit SHU

Stacey Bender, CEO of Bender Group Public Relations, will be coming to speak at Seton Hall on Sept. 25 at 6:30 p.m. in Schwartz Hall Room 105. Those interested in her discussion will witness a PR professional that seems to defy expectations. According to NJBIZ, Bender founded her company in 1995, as a mother to four children all under the age of seven. The article frames her as a woman dedicated to both family and business.

These values are evident down to the very structure of her company. On the company website, the Bender “team”, seemingly all upper management, is comprised of only four people, with Bender included. In addition, Bender’s brother, Barry, serves as the company’s CFO. This is not to say that Bender blindly promotes her family members, necessarily. In his bio on the website, Barry Bender has a notable list of experiences, including his eight years as the director of internal audit for Tropicana. This is the main point at which Bender defies expectation. She seems to maintain a wide range of clients and  a high degree of professionalism while still keeping a relationship with her clients, at least that is how she describes her day-to-day business in the NJBIZ piece. 

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However, Bender is not the only one who says her company has a personal touch. A quick search on Glassdoor, a website where current and former employees and interns share their experiences at a company, finds that many people note Bender Group PR’s small staff as a positive feature. Glassdoor lists the company size as no more than 50 employees total. It is likely less. The company also announced in June via Twitter that they welcomed in office dog named Sadie, adding to the personal feel.

One Glassdoor user explained that the staff size presents a challenge to consistently stay on top of the workload but that it, overall, served them well as a first experience in the PR world.

The company’s size begs the question of how such a small firm could attract names like Freshpet and Frank’s Red Hot to be among their clients.  Perhaps these questions and more will be answered at the discussion!

Bender Group PR is located in Montclair, NJ. The PR professionals there specialize in media placement, crisis management and social media among other facets of the PR world.

All are welcome to attend the discussion regardless of year or major. However, PR and journalism students are encouraged to attend.